16 Feb 2016

Secret letters reveal Pope John Paul's 32-year friendship with woman

8:42 am on 16 February 2016

Hundreds of letters and photographs have emerged that shed light on Pope John Paul II's close relationship with a married woman which lasted more than 30 years.

Cardinal Wojtyla and Anna-Teresa Tymieniecka on a camping trip in 1978

Cardinal Wojtyla and Anna-Teresa Tymieniecka on a camping trip in 1978 Photo: Provided to BBC by Bill and Jadwiga Smith

The letters to Polish-born American philosopher Anna-Teresa Tymieniecka were hidden from public view in the national library of Poland.

The documents, seen by the BBC, reveal a rarely seen side of the pontiff, who died in 2005.

There is no suggestion the Pope broke his vow of celibacy.

The friendship began in 1973 when Ms Tymieniecka contacted the future Pope, Cardinal Karol Wojtyla, then Archbishop of Krakow, about a book on philosophy that he had written.

The then 50-year-old travelled from the US to Poland to discuss the work.

Shortly afterwards, the pair began to correspond. At first the cardinal's letters were formal, but as their friendship grew, they become more intimate.

The pair decided to work on an expanded version of the cardinal's book The Acting Person. They met many times - sometimes with his secretary present, sometimes alone - and corresponded frequently.

In 1974, he wrote that he was re-reading four of Ms Tymieniecka's letters written in one month because they were "so meaningful and deeply personal".

Cardinal Karol with Anna-Teresa Tymieniecka on a skiing trip.

Cardinal Karol with Anna-Teresa Tymieniecka on a skiing trip. Photo: Provided to BBC by Bill and Jadwiga Smith

Photographs showed Karol Wojtyla at his most relaxed. He invited Ms Tymieniecka to join him on country walks and skiing holidays - she even joined him on a group camping trip. The pictures also show her visiting him at the Vatican.

In 1976, Cardinal Wojtyla attended a Catholic conference in the US. Ms Tymieniecka invited him to stay with her family at their country home in New England.

The BBC said she appeared to have revealed intense feelings for him because his letters immediately afterwards suggest a man struggling to make sense of their friendship in Christian terms.

In one, dated September 1976, he writes: "My dear Teresa, I have received all three letters. You write about being torn apart, but I could find no answer to these words." He describes her as a "gift from God".

It is believed copies of Ms Tymieniecka's letters were included in the archive she sold to the Polish National Library in 2008, six years before she died. But the National Library has not confirmed that they have them and the BBC said it had not seen any of Ms Tymieniecka's letters.

Marsha Malinowski, a rare manuscripts dealer who negotiated the sale of the letters, says she believes Ms Tymieniecka fell in love with Cardinal Wojtyla in the early days of their relationship. "I think that it's completely reflected in the correspondence," she told the BBC.

The letters reveal that Cardinal Wojtyla gave Ms Tymieniecka one of his most treasured possessions, an item known as a scapular - a small devotional necklace worn around the shoulders.

In a letter dated 10 September 1976 he wrote: "Already last year I was looking for an answer to these words, 'I belong to you', and finally, before leaving Poland, I found a way - a scapular." He said it allowed him to "accept and feel you everywhere in all kinds of situations, whether you are close - or far away".

Pope John Paul II addresses a youth rally in the United Sates in 1999.

Pope John Paul II addresses a youth rally in the United States in 1999. Photo: AFP / POOL

After becoming Pope he wrote: "I am writing after the event, so that the correspondence between us should continue. I promise I will remember everything at this new stage of my journey."

Cardinal Wojtyla had a number of female friends, including Wanda Poltawska, a psychiatrist with whom he also corresponded for decades.

But his letters to Ms Tymieniecka are at times more intensely emotional, sometimes wrestling with the meaning of their relationship.

The National Library of Poland disputes that this was a unique relationship. It says it was one of many warm friendships the Pope enjoyed throughout his life.

Pope John Paul II died in 2005, after an almost 27-year reign. In 2014 he was declared a saint.