30 Nov 2018

Best features of 2018: parenting

2:14 pm on 14 December 2018

The top ten parenting faults - and some advice

When a child's behaviour is persistently difficult, parenting faults often set in and just keep rolling out, says educator Joseph Driessen. He looks at the top ten and suggests what people can do differently.

Unrecognizable young mother with her little baby boy at the supermarket, shopping.

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Adopting a child in New Zealand

It's not as simple to adopt as it used to be but Katy Gosset finds that for the lucky few, the rewards are worth waiting for.

Fathers who stay at home

Insight - Jacinda Ardern's pregnancy announcement made headlines around the world, and then we learnt that her partner Clarke Gayford would take over as primary caregiver of their baby. What prevents more New Zealand men from becoming stay-at-home fathers, asks Hamish Caldwell.

Prime Minister Jacinda Ardern and partner Clarke Gayford with their baby girl.

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Motherhood missed: women 'childless by circumstance' tell their own stories in new book

The shame and isolation often experienced by women who are 'childless by circumstance' is something we need to have more sensitivity to as a society, says researcher and counsellor Dr Lois Tonkin.

Dr Lois Tonkin, author of 'Motherhood Missed: Stories from Women Who Are Childless by Circumstance'

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How to discuss gender with kids

Why are girls' t-shirts emblazoned with words like "princess" and "pretty" while the boys get "wild" or "adventure"? Katy Gosset looks at gender, how it's presented to our kids and how we can encourage them to think differently.

Kids Superheroes Fun Costumes Play Concept

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Why children lie and how to deal with it

Most people lie, but we teach our children that lying isn't good. Psychologist Penny Van Bergen explains all about how children's lies are really a good thing, and how best to handle it.

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How to talk with boys

Talking to boys is pretty easy until they hit a certain age, around adolescence, and then the wall of silence often goes up. Chalking it up to 'boys being boys' is not good enough for clinical psychologist Dr Adam Cox.

Boys making funny faces

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Sleep training for infants and tips for older children

Sleep is essential for children, but each child is different and the key for parents is to be responsive while also looking after themselves, researcher and commentator Nathan Mikaere Wallis says.

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Modern parenting hacks and the slow parenting movement

It's time for parents to step back and actively consider how they spend their own – and their children's – time, and stare down competitive parent-shaming, says Australian journalist Wendy Tuohy.

Close up of girl beign cuddled against her mother's hip

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Teens' risky decisions and what parents can do

Teenagers are always going to make silly decisions, but there are things parents can do to help minimise the risks, according to psychology professor James McCue.

woman passed out with alcohol bottles

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